OK c'mon be really honest?

I notice alot of 14/15/16 yr olds asking questions about being pregnant and most of you tell them the bare bones facts of how very difficult it is...but some of you try to coddle them and tell them everything is going to be ok...who does that benefit? Think back to when you were 14/15/16 do you think you were mentally/physically/emotionally able to care for a newborn baby? Why not just be honest with these girls? A little honestly might keep some girl from experiencing the same heartache and stress...any thoughts?